From Impossible Dreams to Achievable Realities: Breaking the Rental Cycle
By Monica Davey, Broker Associate, Real Estate Empowered LLC
Moving to a new country always presents challenges, especially when the traditions and mentalities of previous generations are impregnated in us, like invisible tattoos in the heart and mind. Such was the case of Juana and Esteban, two people who, in Mexico, did not even know each other existence; for reasons of fate, they came to know each other in the United States and later started a family together.
In Mexico, Juana, Esteban, and most of their close relatives grew up in rented houses; buying a house was never an option. That thought was stuck in their minds for many years, believing that it was only for people with lots of money because in Mexico in the 80s and 90s, and even until now, there are no supportive governmental or non-governmental entities that help with the purchase of the first house.
Almost twenty years of renting have passed since they arrived in the United States, and Juana and Esteban continued keeping the same mentality and, at the same time, doing what seemed safer for them and their family. However, three years ago, something changed. After many conversations, we managed to break the generational cycle of renting, and they took the brave step of buying their first house. As their Realtor®, I had the privilege of advising them in this process, giving them all my real estate knowledge and expertise.
This change not only marked a milestone in their lives but also changed the mentality of their family. For them, acquiring a house in the United States was a sign of stability, an achievement that allowed them to take root in a country that, for a long time, they felt they were not part of.
When they moved to their new home, their children had to change schools. This change, which initially seemed like a challenge, became a blessing. In their new school, their eldest daughter met a teacher who, like her, was the daughter of immigrants. This “coincidence” deeply inspired the daughter, who, in previous years, thought that perhaps school was not for her.
The story of Juana and Esteban inspires many immigrants who, like them, arrived in this country without considering all its possibilities, such as the dream of owning a house. Their experience teaches several important lessons. Juana and Esteban are examples of how changing a mentality can transform lives. Today, they have a house and a legacy that they will pass on to their children. Their story reminds us that, with determination and support, it is possible to break with the cycles of the past and build a brighter future.
In this Hispanic Heritage Month, which is celebrated in the United States from September 15 to October 15, it is essential to remember and celebrate the contributions of Hispanics in this country. Buying a house is not only a personal benefit; it is a contribution to the stability of the country that will benefit future generations, serving as an example for others to follow, and it also contributes economically to the community by generating tax revenues that help the government maintain and improve public services. As a Realtor®, I am here to help you transform your dreams of owning your home into achievable realities. Let’s continue building a future full of opportunities for us and the new generations! Find me on social media platforms like @Destin.Realtor
